The deadline trick implementation” (Life changing article)

This my friends is the second part of the article The deadline trick if you haven’t read yet go through the link.
I ended my previous article with…
You might think, to have this kind of mindset, in reality  ,is too hard. it’s almost impossible. let me tell you something.
It is possible

It’s not the first time you’d go through this transition. Mortality, although the greatest reminder of the value of time, isn’t the only one.

YOU HAVE DONE IT ALREADY

You’ve gone through this personal evolution before, you just don’t remember it anymore, because you achieved what you wanted.
Think of the time when you lost a job, and you had to find a new one as soon as possible. Were you concern about dating that day? or watching your favorite television show?
Think of the time when you faced an emergency, and the only priority, your only focus that day was to solve that problem no matter what.
Were you thinking about going to a nightclub then?

Think of the time when you were preparing for a competition and there was no other option but to destroy the scores and guarantee your admission in that college or program. Were you hanging out with your friends and just wasting time?
Think of the time when for the first time you saw the opportunity you had been waiting for your entire life. What did you do that evening?
Did you not prepare? Did you not abandon every single plan you had with anybody until you made sure that opportunity was yours?
On that day, you knew what you wanted and where you were. So you locked yourself up, told every single distraction to f–k off, and functioned on that level of consciousness.
You’ve already done it, only on a much smaller scale. This time you need to do it on a magnitude that will change the entire course of your life and permanently set you on another level.

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

So what are you waiting for? keep your phone down, sit alone with yourself and ask, what if you only have 12 months to live?
Focus on this Dead line of thought until you have gained the consciousness, ask yourself:
What are my true gifts? What is that one thing I always wanted to learn? what is that thing I always wanted to do?
Bring it back. Stop running away from your true, unique, beautiful self.
In your attempts to mingle in the crowds, somewhere you abandoned the things that made you unique, that separated you from others.
And if during this process you are reminded of your failures, about the possibility that might have wasted a lot of your time, or there aren’t enough opportunities.

MOVE ON

Move on. Focus only on the 12 months ahead of you. That is your life now. That is all the time you have. And nothing else matters.

I hope you liked the article, And I promise you if you approach the future with this mindset, you will conquer any goal in your life.
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Thank you.

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“The deadline trick” (Life changing article)

It was late night when I rushed to the balcony next to when I updated my Whatsapp status with “am busy writing.” I often do same when I have plans in my mind for my next article.
on the second minute before I was about to finish my coffee I heard a laughing ,giggling guffaw voice of the sons of our neighbor from the window, next to our balcony. This left me with a weird thought; how are they so happy? I am of the same age but why are we so different? what was that mistake I did in my past which made me this depressed, broken and hopeless? What was that one thing which I shouldn’t have done, What is the best way to live the life?

which made me flow this article to you…
If you promise me to stay with me to end of this article I promise you that the moment you would end this article you won’t be the you; “you are now”
What is the best way to live your life?
now, there is no absolute answer to this question. Nobody can tell you the best way to live your life, but yourself.
what I can give you is a prospective.
Imagine if you were told right now you had only a year to live.
12 months from this point on. That is all you have.
Your initial reactions to this would be shock. disbelief, doubt, depression, and then preparation. or in another word, you’ll go through the five stages of grief. After having accepted the fact that you have only 12 months to live, your personality will go through a systematic, miraculous form of evolution almost instantaneously.
And this evolution is what changes the entire diagram of your existence.
In a way, for the first time, you will stop being a part of the society, and conciously take your first step to individuality. which is the separation of your existence from the rest of the world not for the need to be diffrent or recogonized, but because that is its function. And it happens because for the first time you have no other option but to take your life seriously.
So, what is that evolution? Well, after having accepted your mortality, your mind will go through the following changes automatically.
The first thing that happens is all your excuses disappear, regardless of the scheme of actions you’re going to pursue in the future.
All the excuses in your life until now that you have struggled with, never truely cared to solve, and unconsciously made a part of your personality get surgically removed from your brain as if they never existed. For the first time in your life, you’re truely blessed with the focus shared by the greatest minds, and you haven’t even chosen the yet.
Second, you’re blank. All your past , consisting of stupid mistakes, habits, memories and regrets gets deleted.
You now look forward to creating great memories with people who truely matter in your life.
All your crushes, grudges, memories and tears and lies and pain, none of that shit matters anymore. you forget and move on within a second.
Third, you discover priorities. Your mind absolutely builds a list of people, actions, activities, practices, customs, and habits you need to dispose of.
Fourth, you’re not looking forward to gallivanting with your friends anymore or performing your daily rituals which are basically creating replicas of yesterday.
If you think about it, each day in your life is exactly the same. But now for the first time, you’re not worried or insecure about your girlfriend anymore.you’re not uncomfortable or jealous if some guy is talking to the girl you have a crush on. You recognize that all these things are distractions. You’re not looking forward to that party you were supposed to attend, or frequenting night clubs, or drinking with your buddies. That is all trivial shit.
Your mind acknowledges and separates the people of importance from the crowd you have gathered over the year.
And as your mind figures out the things you want to do, you know very clearly what do you want to do – which makes all the greatest difference. What you want will eventually come to you, you just have to cut off triviality and you will meet focus, and focus will grab you through various distractions and lead you directly to your destination.
Fifth, you are vigilant. The days in your life aren’t divided by weekdays and weekends anymore. Each morning will be different and separate from the other. Each day will be an opportunity that brings you closer to your dreams.
From this day on, you won’t be waiting for opportunities anymore but seizing moments to create them.
Sixth, You are reminded of your legacy, What are you leaving behind to those who love you, those dependent on you, and those whom you cherish?
You ask yourself, what would I be remembered for?
seventh, you make settlements with the villainy that surrounds you, with all the losers that have bothered you and brought you down for too long. You’re no long bound by the threads of superficial relationships, artificial people, and obligatory acquaintances. You have been librated of all influence, you’re unaffected by criticism – negative or positive. You are free from human indulgence.
Eighth, You accept and appreciate the love. And it;s not selfish love anymore. It’s purest, most incorruptible form of love that flows in the direction of those whom you love without hesitation, without question. And you know they love you too, and never ceased to support you. They are those who see grace and beauty where others saw flaws and imperfections.
And it is in this moment you choose their love instead of chasing and finding and hoping to somehow control, impress or convince some stranger to fall in love with you.
Ninth, You seek happiness rather than joy. You finally recognize the distinction your brain chose to ignore while living under the illusion of ampleness of time. And when faced with a choice, you appreciate indulging in happiness rather than seeking joy, because joy although attributed to bringing happiness is a short-lived; and the things that define the meaning of your life are not.
There is a reason why when Keats wrote, “a thing of beauty is a joy forever,” he added forever at the end, because joy is momentary.
Once you understand this distinction, you don’t run after one night stands, flings, or short-lived dalliances. You don’t seek to repeat moments of joy by augmenting your drug usage, by indulging in social gatherings more, or from petty ego boosts in forms of compliments.
Lastly, you realize that you are complete. You don’t need any other person to reassure of your greatness, your legendary status, your awesomeness. You’re a titan. you’re not in a fight with competition anymore.
With this level of self-awareness and consciousness, you’re not a part of the crowd. You’re not in a fight against humans. You’re out there to make a name for yourself, you’re gonna take down gods.
That’s who you are, you’re a f–king titan. remember that.
Challenge your mortality and all that is important to you will come to you naturally.
Now just imagine if you lived with this level of consciousness every single day, what won’t you accomplish?
All you need to do is, constantly ask yourself, urge yourself to believe that you have only 12 months in your hands.
Get into the mindset, and once you do, you will experience the evolution I have laid out.
How many times in a day do you remind yourself that very soon, in comparison to the infinite scope of time, you will die!
And before dying, you will experience a phenomenon known as being old. So the only time when you will ever be the most efficient is now.
In about 20 years, you will be half as efficient as you are right now.
If you don’t act now, in about 10 years, all the opportunities you have in your hands will be reduced to half.
I cannot go back to school so I can be a geologist, physicist, cosmologist, molecular biologist, or anything of that sort, because that ship sailed a long time ago. The only option I am left with is to blame someone.
Blaming is one of the most pointless activities available to humans.
So, are you going to wait for that experience where you faced that eventually and are left with nothing but to pick someone to blame or are you going to avoid that experience altogether it’s your choice.
You might think, to have this kind of mindset in reality is too hard. it’s almost impossible.
Well no!
It is possible..
which again brings me to my next article How to implement this in your brain (The deadline trick implementation)
which would be posted in 6 hours next to this article.

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“LOVE” | The masked side

“She slept with him, I have  been cheated.”  My life is devastated,

 what do I do now?  Death would be a better preference than to live now without her.  I broked up.

Introducing you to  Love | The masked side.

This is  Feb when the love rains but fails to wash the masked side of your love.

You might be in love or you might have a crush, you could be in teenage an ideal time for puppy love, you might be married or you could be a blazing, flaming heart in one-sided love.
It makes no difference who you are, Everyone  had been  someday or sometime in love and must be  apprised to  its pro and cons both

In our society , many of us idealize love. We see it as some lofty cure-all for all of life’s problems. Our movies and our stories and our history all celebrate it as life’s ultimate goal, the final solution for all of our pain and struggle. And because we idealize love, we overestimate it. As a result, our relationships pay a price.
This Example might make some difference in your life.

Hello, I am a murdered soul,
very alike everyone  I was once in my school days,  life was easy, immature well yet I never felt this at that time. Everything was pleasant, straightforward, painless, manageable and simplified before I got to know a girl, she was  beautiful ,attractive and this was the first time  my heart was blooming for a weird reason which  concluded
By fair means or foul  we got to know each other and slipped off in love,
Throughout this alluring journey of our relationship we had several ups and down.
similar to you all, I am also possessive,”yes I stop her “

Never wanted anyone to spot her, not even a glimpse.

Prevented her presence in parties, prevented her to have a conversation with other guys.
I was so unfortunate that although I love to see her in the western dress I never allowed her to wear.

You can call me conservative, pervert, orthodox, cheap, dominant, worst human.

And she left him(broked up).

Now I’m not sad because she left me, I’m just not happy because I can never leave her.

 

“The masked side”
His girlfriend once told him to stay away from girls
she said, “she is afraid to loose him.” She cries for him and is afraid to lose her love, so she did everything he wanted.

 

Fear is a terrible emotion you know, He is afraid to loose her which made restrictions and she follows it because she is afraid to loose him.

well, who has the more acute fear?

 

She very well knows no girl can force him physically when her guy is out alone.
she knows girls very rarely take hold of the first attempt to her crush.

She knows god made us this way that males would mostly try hard to get a female even in animals.

She knows he can protect himself, there isn’t any trouble on his dignity

On the other side?

He knows she deserves freedom but he doesn’t want her to go alone he is afraid about her safety as she cannot protect herself practically and he can’t wait for any wrong to happen.
He knows she deserves to wear anything, yet he is again afraid she might get the wrong attention which in a result is a trouble.
He knows he isn’t there to shield her all the time which again revert to,”No are only allowed to go out with someone.

And she left him finally with no second thought how would that soul live

 

She never understood why? Never understood he must have had more painful fear.

Instead of calling him conservative she could have made up things comfortable.

“Not her fault, human nature. We prefer buying new rather than repairing.

 

Hang on! Someone else too wants to meet you.

Hello, I am another murdered soul
very alike, everyone, I was in my college days, life was exciting full of curiosity, there was no horizon of my dreams, joys, and fun.

Everything was pleasant, straightforward, painless, manageable and simplified before I got to know a boy, He was  handsome, each attractive and this was the first time  my heart was blooming for a weird reason which  concluded by fair means or foul  we got to each other and slipped off in love,

Everything was wonderful since we started to have insecurities later and common arguments that generally happens.

Being a human I too made a mistake,  I got close to another guy and started to trust him and we used to hang out, one night we were drunk and mistakenly I slept with him.
I was guilty, that feeling of sorrow started to consume my heart in regression. I used to love my guy eternally so I told him everything seeking for his forgiveness.
…he left me as he found me waiting and bruised, but now also willing and broken. I shakily tend my wounds, mystified if I had flown or fallen.

 

The masked side

Well, to understand it better let us assume we have two parts in our heads.
MIND and INTELLIGENCE

My mind says I want to smoke a cigaret, he begs am addicted feed me, while  intelligence says, “no it will kill you in future it’s harmful.”

This is the reason why we smoke, just because I feel like smoking my mind says to smoke and despite we know our addiction to regret, difference alcohol, drugs would lead to death. We do!

Similarly,

There are no differences in our sister and girlfriends, both of them have the same body, same organs, same hairs , she is  capable of doing same things that your girlfriend could do, anatomically they are same but what is the reason behind this, that hugging your sister and hugging your girlfriend have two different feels and stimulation??

Its because here our intelligence comes into play, it  distinguishes about this is your sister and that is your girlfriend.

Keeping this in mind,

I have question for you.

why do we flirt?

With no second thought why do we start to mack on everytime?  

why do we keep searching for new body?

When we know we have a wife or girlfriend at home she has the same thing same capabilities that the girls out side have then why do we flirt , we cheat, we go to them? Despite we know it would only result in break up, divorce as truth never hides,  just because our mind says, we do! We will flirt!

 

Aforementioned,

A guy leaves her girlfriend , because she slept with someone, or may be she has kissed someone, she hugged someone..beacuse she made any mistakes or probably you found someone better.

I want you to ask this, “Have your mom or dad every told you am leaving you? , because you made any mistake , did they say I have found other more intelligent and  rich so I love that other son or daughter? “
No, they will still love you and would try to make you better,
There is only one love that exists, and that’s parental love.
I would forgive her every mistake , I would protect her from everything no matter what am being called, I have made  my love so strong that I would even forgive her if she would sleep with anyone.

Because, my friends

There is something above body .. (Body se upar bhi koi cheez hoti hai)

Not every thing is judged on the basis of her body, there is something that is above the body and am here with her for that something.

What about you?

The day you will understand this you will develope the unconditional, unselfish purest form of love. Which actualy is a parental love.
My love for her is parental!

No matter how bad she falls, breaks,  I would reach to that trash to piece her back.
Society might judge you on your body, society might call you a dude to boy with group of girls and slut to a girl with group of boys

Similar to like , a lock that can be opened by any key is called as useless, and a key that can open every lock is called as master key. But the truth is there is no difference in between them. One is threat to your house, other is threat to others house.
Hello , I am a murdered soul

there is something left that I forgot to tell you,
“Do you know why am murder and who I am?”

I am you!
Your soul have been murdered.
You want to live, I want to live…. Please!

 

This feb,  filter your love with this masked side.
Thank you

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“LOOSER”

“I know I don’t have money but I have a great idea for business,’ he chanted”
“Son! We aren’t rich enough to spare the price of risk on your idea,’ His dad retorted”.

(In a remorseful voice)  “Dad, not everyone is brilliant or sharp enough to crack any competition exams for a good job. I tried my best I wish to own a business now. I know I didn’t study on time, devastated my school days and have lost my grip on the basic knowledge yet this doesn’t bring me to the end. I haven’t conceded defeat.”

“Followed by an anxious silence his dad grumbled,’ you haven’t perceived the world yet and that the business isn’t so easy, go back to your room and try to study, don’t waste your time on such ideas!
Welcome readers today we all are assembled here to show and share our views on one of the most important aspects of human life that is nothing but the question. “Why should we take our first step to head towards our dream right now”.

So, don’t forget to share your views in comments. Feedbacks would be appreciated.

So, what is that one compelling reason due to of which you begged your fortune to spare you success?  Why do you wanna be successful, why do you wanna earn money, what makes you think you need a position in society?
Well, this rely on person to person, Sprinkle of peoples are just simply too poor to fulfill their basic needs, other have been erased, assassinated with the taunts of their knowns (so called well-wisher). Some have to lead themselves with the sorrowful mind as they have love relationships which can only breathe and survive if somehow they cope to settle down with good income and bright growthful future in order to get marry, some are tired of spending each day as a replica of their previous day, worthlessly. I believe most of you are already having that compelling reason that makes you think I NEED TO MAKE A CHANGE.

But those who don’t give a damn despite researching what special in me, who accepted the fact of being a “LOOSER”, who finds their path gloomy. My dear friends, I want you to assume this;

Let’s take an example of a girl,

similar to every ordinary child she too was born and grew up, she too had a curious mind followed by her colorful dreams, those dreams could be anything, it could be a wish to sight different cities or states or to learn swimming may be to sing or either to buy an iPhone whatever she dreams she expect that to be fulfilled by her dad.

She thought all heroes were tall, muscular and wore a cape.

“Your daughter’s old enough now, get her married, “the elders said.

“No she wants to study more,” her dad replied.

In her pot-bellied, balding and diabetic father, she found a hero of a different kind.

But no matter how much he loves her daughter he isn’t rich enough to fill her all dreams, she just wasted her young age working in the kitchen.

Now, she has grown enough, it’s time for her marriage, now she have another expectation of a better life she hope inside herself of living again this time with her husband that he will fulfill all her dreams she will watch the world with him, and unfortunately she gets a poor husband who hardly could manage the expense of their house.

Well, now she has compromised with her life she has become a mother now she needs to think about her children yet she is still working in the kitchen.

The last hope is now her children that they would study, they would be a better person they would fill her all dreams they would help her live a better life.

These are the three phases of a girl’s life.

Ladies and gentlemen, I want you to close your laptop, mobile,pc  after you are finished with this article and watch your mom today in the kitchen of your house, Do you really want this wonderful gift of god to spend all her life in that 4/4 kitchen??  Her life started from the kitchen and ended to the kitchen!
Does she really deserve this in return of all love and affection she gave you?

How many years now is left in her life span?  You want to be more late to get the train to your goals? You want to be later in establishing yourself and giving her that live?

“You mean now you wanna shift that LOOSER tag to your mom?”
Of course, she is the LOOSER then, after devoting all her life in serving she got a kitchen.

Don’t be so late I know you have tried enough and tired but my friend if you are tired you need to rest not to give up.

Your friends must have got a brilliant brain, must have got a good gob must be earning a lac per month, you consider that as a successful life yes?

it’s a kind of happiness if he wishes to buy a Land rover, He needs to save his salaries for may b 6 -7 month neglecting all his other basic requirement and in order to buy that car.

It’s another kind of happiness when you go out, you see a car (land rover) and you buy it right at that moment
there is a lot of difference in both of this happiness.

Which happiness you want??

Let’s relate this to our first example of the girl (your mom)

Have seen your mom she went out to market she likes lots of things but she thinks before buying them, don’t you want her to go out and buy whatever she likes at that very instance?
Business is the way to this second happiness!

Don’t end up your day with the same tag on your head, ‘’LOOSER’’

Now the question is how?

We don’t have the money to start our idea or business.

We are ready to work hard but we have no idea how?

How will I put that first investment? Who would help me out for this first investment?

Well, I have a way out, through which each and every one of you could get that initial amount to start your business even if you have zero balance.

Refer to my next article about

“How to get the first investment for any new idea of our business?”

It would be posted soon by this week itself.

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