“LOVE” | The masked side

“She slept with him, I have  been cheated.”  My life is devastated,

 what do I do now?  Death would be a better preference than to live now without her.  I broked up.

Introducing you to  Love | The masked side.

This is  Feb when the love rains but fails to wash the masked side of your love.

You might be in love or you might have a crush, you could be in teenage an ideal time for puppy love, you might be married or you could be a blazing, flaming heart in one-sided love.
It makes no difference who you are, Everyone  had been  someday or sometime in love and must be  apprised to  its pro and cons both

In our society , many of us idealize love. We see it as some lofty cure-all for all of life’s problems. Our movies and our stories and our history all celebrate it as life’s ultimate goal, the final solution for all of our pain and struggle. And because we idealize love, we overestimate it. As a result, our relationships pay a price.
This Example might make some difference in your life.

Hello, I am a murdered soul,
very alike everyone  I was once in my school days,  life was easy, immature well yet I never felt this at that time. Everything was pleasant, straightforward, painless, manageable and simplified before I got to know a girl, she was  beautiful ,attractive and this was the first time  my heart was blooming for a weird reason which  concluded
By fair means or foul  we got to know each other and slipped off in love,
Throughout this alluring journey of our relationship we had several ups and down.
similar to you all, I am also possessive,”yes I stop her “

Never wanted anyone to spot her, not even a glimpse.

Prevented her presence in parties, prevented her to have a conversation with other guys.
I was so unfortunate that although I love to see her in the western dress I never allowed her to wear.

You can call me conservative, pervert, orthodox, cheap, dominant, worst human.

And she left him(broked up).

Now I’m not sad because she left me, I’m just not happy because I can never leave her.

 

“The masked side”
His girlfriend once told him to stay away from girls
she said, “she is afraid to loose him.” She cries for him and is afraid to lose her love, so she did everything he wanted.

 

Fear is a terrible emotion you know, He is afraid to loose her which made restrictions and she follows it because she is afraid to loose him.

well, who has the more acute fear?

 

She very well knows no girl can force him physically when her guy is out alone.
she knows girls very rarely take hold of the first attempt to her crush.

She knows god made us this way that males would mostly try hard to get a female even in animals.

She knows he can protect himself, there isn’t any trouble on his dignity

On the other side?

He knows she deserves freedom but he doesn’t want her to go alone he is afraid about her safety as she cannot protect herself practically and he can’t wait for any wrong to happen.
He knows she deserves to wear anything, yet he is again afraid she might get the wrong attention which in a result is a trouble.
He knows he isn’t there to shield her all the time which again revert to,”No are only allowed to go out with someone.

And she left him finally with no second thought how would that soul live

 

She never understood why? Never understood he must have had more painful fear.

Instead of calling him conservative she could have made up things comfortable.

“Not her fault, human nature. We prefer buying new rather than repairing.

 

Hang on! Someone else too wants to meet you.

Hello, I am another murdered soul
very alike, everyone, I was in my college days, life was exciting full of curiosity, there was no horizon of my dreams, joys, and fun.

Everything was pleasant, straightforward, painless, manageable and simplified before I got to know a boy, He was  handsome, each attractive and this was the first time  my heart was blooming for a weird reason which  concluded by fair means or foul  we got to each other and slipped off in love,

Everything was wonderful since we started to have insecurities later and common arguments that generally happens.

Being a human I too made a mistake,  I got close to another guy and started to trust him and we used to hang out, one night we were drunk and mistakenly I slept with him.
I was guilty, that feeling of sorrow started to consume my heart in regression. I used to love my guy eternally so I told him everything seeking for his forgiveness.
…he left me as he found me waiting and bruised, but now also willing and broken. I shakily tend my wounds, mystified if I had flown or fallen.

 

The masked side

Well, to understand it better let us assume we have two parts in our heads.
MIND and INTELLIGENCE

My mind says I want to smoke a cigaret, he begs am addicted feed me, while  intelligence says, “no it will kill you in future it’s harmful.”

This is the reason why we smoke, just because I feel like smoking my mind says to smoke and despite we know our addiction to regret, difference alcohol, drugs would lead to death. We do!

Similarly,

There are no differences in our sister and girlfriends, both of them have the same body, same organs, same hairs , she is  capable of doing same things that your girlfriend could do, anatomically they are same but what is the reason behind this, that hugging your sister and hugging your girlfriend have two different feels and stimulation??

Its because here our intelligence comes into play, it  distinguishes about this is your sister and that is your girlfriend.

Keeping this in mind,

I have question for you.

why do we flirt?

With no second thought why do we start to mack on everytime?  

why do we keep searching for new body?

When we know we have a wife or girlfriend at home she has the same thing same capabilities that the girls out side have then why do we flirt , we cheat, we go to them? Despite we know it would only result in break up, divorce as truth never hides,  just because our mind says, we do! We will flirt!

 

Aforementioned,

A guy leaves her girlfriend , because she slept with someone, or may be she has kissed someone, she hugged someone..beacuse she made any mistakes or probably you found someone better.

I want you to ask this, “Have your mom or dad every told you am leaving you? , because you made any mistake , did they say I have found other more intelligent and  rich so I love that other son or daughter? “
No, they will still love you and would try to make you better,
There is only one love that exists, and that’s parental love.
I would forgive her every mistake , I would protect her from everything no matter what am being called, I have made  my love so strong that I would even forgive her if she would sleep with anyone.

Because, my friends

There is something above body .. (Body se upar bhi koi cheez hoti hai)

Not every thing is judged on the basis of her body, there is something that is above the body and am here with her for that something.

What about you?

The day you will understand this you will develope the unconditional, unselfish purest form of love. Which actualy is a parental love.
My love for her is parental!

No matter how bad she falls, breaks,  I would reach to that trash to piece her back.
Society might judge you on your body, society might call you a dude to boy with group of girls and slut to a girl with group of boys

Similar to like , a lock that can be opened by any key is called as useless, and a key that can open every lock is called as master key. But the truth is there is no difference in between them. One is threat to your house, other is threat to others house.
Hello , I am a murdered soul

there is something left that I forgot to tell you,
“Do you know why am murder and who I am?”

I am you!
Your soul have been murdered.
You want to live, I want to live…. Please!

 

This feb,  filter your love with this masked side.
Thank you

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“How to get the first investment on any business idea?”

We all seem to be getting more self-obsessed by the day. Turn on your tv or open a web browser, and narcissism hits you smack in the face – everything screams ME! ME! ME!
Now this me that brought you here might help you.

So as I assured you previously here’s another article followed by my previous article “LOOSER”.

 

Well, my fellow readers let straight hop into the subject we’re here to talk about.I have a firm hunch about you people are already having that perfect idea for your startup business, if you are here reading this article. So how do we ignite that idea? when have we no resource, money, funds?
No worries, buckle up when you are done with this article.

Next to my Perfect idea which I had once in my mind, somehow I managed to get my uncle’s interest which led to the initial investment in my startup. Later that business failed either by hook or by crook no matter whatever was the reason behind failure, you know the worst part when a business fails?  Yeah, of course, the loss of money yet its more painful and outrageous when you make the loss of others money and trust.

 

Which in result made me understand about the peace of mind in having your own investment.
Its always better and burden free when you use your own money, let me know in comments what you think about this to give me a better prospective.
Anyway,  the question continues, “how do we get our own money”?

The good news is no matter how much annoyed we are to our government, our system, and to our country sometimes, however there’s still a scheme that can be availed from the government which may be yet hidden to you.

Next to when I lost hope, absentmindedly browsing over internet, I got to know about a kind of loan that government offers,  which is uncomplicated to avail.

 

But due to of the lack of exact knowledge as I was excited and thrilled of with this new hope to start all over again my business, I just rushed to it.
You must have heard a known quote i.e.;  “Little knowledge is dangerous”

Didn’t get me?

Need an example?

Well have you ever met into an incident where you went into your kitchen where you found  A dish ,it could be anything, was  frying over an on the move, in nobody’s supervision  and you didn’t turn it off thinking mom have put it for some reason. While after staring at it you have no idea whether its cooked enough or not.

and later after a while you get to know it caught fire and damaged a little part of your Kitchen?

well if you would have the knowledge about how that dish is being cooked you would have turned it off assuming   its done and is  being over cooked now , like you have the knowledge about when milk is boiled and you turn it off on right time..
would you have let it turned  on if it was milk instead?

No!
this exactly what it means  by “little knowledge is  dangerous!
Okay I accept that was a boring example!!

 

Similarly, I was been frauded with a group of people who claimed to get me the loan.
Which know brings me to a “NOTE”!!!
Only apply it on official websites

Now lets talk about

  • What is this loan?
  • How to apply for this?
  • What are the eligibility?
  • What does it cost to get it sanctioned??
  • Risks?

“What is this loan”?

Considering the unemployment as the major issue issue in India government has launched this scheme

Called “Prime Minister Generation Program” (P.M.E.G.P)  which allowes you to get your business loan from the government in an easy 15 days with minimal documentation and with lowest interest rate up to 4% giving you time 3 to 10 years to return it back.

 

“How to apply this”

Ah, its as easy as creating a facebook account. Okay okay!,  a little more descriptive form but.

That’s it , you are ready to go.

 

“What are eligibilities”?

  • You must be 18 years old or above
  • Must be at least viii pass. (yes! you read it right, just 8th pass!)
  • can obtain this scheme once in a lifetime
  • must be a citizen of India

that’s minimum eligibility

other detailed eligibility Conditions of Beneficiaries are:-

  • There will be no income ceiling for assistance for setting up projects under PMEGP.
  • For setting up of project costing above Rs.10 lakh in the manufacturing sector and above Rs. 5 lakh in the business /service sector, the beneficiaries sho/div>
  • Self Help Groups (including those belonging to BPL provided that they have not availed benefits under any other Scheme) are also eligible for assistance under PMEGP.
  • Institutions registered under Societies Registration Act,1860;
  • Production Co-operative Societies, and Charitable Trusts.

Existing Units (under PMRY, REGP or any other scheme of Government of India or State Government) and the units that have already availed Government Subsidy under any other scheme of Government of India or State Government are not eligible.

That just sounds scary but its too simple as you get into it.

trust me, as I have researched myself and went for a loan to its regional office.

let me know if you want me to share you my experience what exactly happened with step by step guide what to do.

Refer to the Download section in the menu of my blog for screenshot view of how to fill in the form and where to find it on official website of PMEGP

which again brings me to my next upcoming article.
“how many days will it take to get your PMEGP loan”? 

Stay tuned and make sure you hit the follow button if you don’t want it to be missed.
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Didn’t get me? 
Need another boring example? :’)

 

 

 

I see something in you!

You and I are not very different from this flower. Just like this flower is unique, you are unique. All of us have something special that makes us as beautiful. Do you know what makes you special?

Now the answer to that can be a little difficult of find, because sometimes life has a cruel way of picking out your petals, breaking you in two and throwing you into the trash. Now when you’re broken, it’s very difficult to feel special.

Mr./miss reader, my fellow flowers. I can remember the first time I broke. I was seventeen years old. I had already flunked high school and managed to get myself arrested. Now, I wasn’t afraid of the cops, but there was one person I was very afraid of and that was my mama. Raise your hand if you had an emotional mother. Let me see. Put them all together you get my mama. I can hear her scream outside the police station. Even the cops were afraid. She came up to me, held the iron bars, looked into my eyes and I saw a tear coming down her face.

Now I’ve seen my mama crying before, but mothers cry three types of tear: tears of joy, tears of sorrow and tears of shame. And when a son sees a mother cry tears of shame, that’s a life changing moment. She looked at me and said “son, I want to be a better man”. That night when I drove home my dad was waiting for me at home. Now my dad is a cool dad. Raise your hand if you have a cool dad. Put them all together you get my dad. My dad came up to me and said “son it’s okay. You flunked your exams. You already got arrested. That’s fine. You get that from your mother side. I want you to start working immediately”. And I said, okay.

So my dad took me to meet one his friends called Sam. Now, Sam was an accountant who had an accounting firm and had generously decided to make me his personal assistant and there he was. He looked like a teddy bear, but this man was special. I looked at him and he looked at me and then he said the most amazing thing. He said “son, I see something in you, but I don’t know what it is. If you decide to work with me, I can help you find that something”. And I was like, wow, that’s the first time in my whole life somebody has ever told they see something in me and I started working for Sam. And everyday after work he used to tell me stories about the world, about history, about culture, about philosophy and it was much more interesting than what I learned in school. And I discovered I can dream and I started dreaming, ladies and gentleman. After one year I went back into high school, completed my exams and went into college.

After successfully completing college I found a great girl, but not a job. I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life. Have you ever had that problem? And when you’re lost it’s difficult to feel special. So I went back to my cool dad and I said “dad, I feel lost”. He said, “you are like your mother.” So my dad introduced me to this strange club that had a strange name, with strange people – talking.

 Do You Know What Makes You Special?

On the first meeting they told me to do something called a table topic. I aced it! But while I was speaking I see a strange man seated in the back row, humble, simple, the unfailing quality of kindness in his eyes. As soon I finished he walked up to me, looked me dead straight in the eye and said, “son, I see something in you, but I don’t know what it is. If you come here twice a month maybe we can find that something.”

And ladies and gentlemen, I discovered I could speak and I love speaking and that led me to become a teacher. I know what it’s like to not have enough money in your bank account. I know what it’s like to worry when the bills start coming in. And sometimes in the middle of the night I wake up my beautiful wife and ask her “honey, why did you marry me?” She says, “I saw something in you, but I still I don’t know what it is?”

And Then

Ladies and gentleman today I’m a dreamer, I’m a speaker and I learned the unfailing quality of unconditional love from my wife.

I was broken and I’ve been broken, lost and broke many times in my life, but the people in my life were able to reach into the trash can and make me whole again. If it was up to me, I would have never been able to do that. And this is why if you have great people in your life no matter how broke, how lost or how broken you become they can piece you back together.

Ladies and gentleman, when I look at you I see something in you, but I don’t know what it is? Over to you.